breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
No Love Lost No Love Found
It’s been two years. Two years ago I was in love with you. Two years ago we were inseparable. Two years ago you were my best. Two years ago I could not imagine myself without you. But things all began to change. You started to distance yourself. You started to keep things from me. You chose your video games over me. You would choose to hang out with your friends instead of me. You started to complain about every little thing I did. Nothing I did was good enough for you. It was as if you had become tired of me. Tired of us. We spent three years together as a couple. But five years together as best friends. We became an old married couple bickering at each other over the littlest things. You couldn’t stand me anymore. And to be the utmost honest... I couldn’t stand you either. I never saw it coming. I couldn’t imagine myself without you in my life. And by the time we had finally called it quits, I wasn’t sad. I gave you three days with no contact. And you hardly noticed I wasn’t around. Now it’s been two years and we are merely strangers to one another. Someone I used to call my best friend has become the biggest stranger. I don’t talk to you anymore. And I don’t think about you much. I don’t regret what we had. Because I am now stronger than I have ever been. The past two years have changed me into a better person. I’ve moved on and you have too. You are merely a glimpse in my past.
By Jamie Shields7 years ago in Humans
The Science Behind Heartbreak: How to Cope with a Bad Breakup
While it’s common for a single person to get rejected now and then, these feelings are made all the harder when they come from someone you love. Coping with heartbreak is never easy, but ending a long-term relationship can be particularly painful, whether you were the one asking for the breakup or not.
By Tobias Gillot7 years ago in Humans
Surviving Heartbreak
To be honest, I think this is like the first time I've written a blog post and actually not thought about being 'positive' and trying to make people 'see the light at the end of the tunnel'. I'm just being real and RAW. Heartbreak and the heartache that comes with it is actually unmatchable LOL. I don't know of any pain it is comparable to. It's not the worst pain, but it's a unique kind of pain on its own. The worst is when it wasn't even because of a relationship, but a situationship, and I'm not the first person that's expressed this so I know this much is true. When I feel like this, I don't think there's anything anyone can say to make me feel better (except God). My friends (bless them) have the best things to say, and are always trying to uplift me, but needless to say it's as useful to me as a band aid in this situation. It almost feels like the world is ending. And I think that's because this person, in a way, was your world. People like me who are intense beings feel two ways when ending with someone, absolutely nothing or absolutely everything. This is what makes it worse. I've spoken to people and it's come to an end, and it's been a relatively easy 'goodbye'. Yes I'd still think about them occasionally, but the memories would pop up and I'd literally feel nothing. But when I really like the person. Wow. Fam, I'm sure I'm close to death because what kind of pain is that? Why does it have to feel like this?!?!?! How many working days 'til I feel normal again?!????!
By Eyram Kiakia7 years ago in Humans
My Ex. My Cousin. His Wife.
I committed a crime in early 2010 that would gift me a two year sentence in the Florida Department of Corrections. As new meat on the block, I was being pursued by many of the women that were trying to pass their time by having a little fun, and being 'gay for the stay,' a prison termed used for woman that have no interest in the same sex outside of the prison gates.
By Tanaine Jenkins7 years ago in Humans
3 Things That Could End a Relationship
There are things that can surely end a relationship rather quickly, no matter how great the relationship seems to be. Very rarely does a relationship survive these pitfalls. In most cases, though, the relationship simply ends.
By John Vadernport7 years ago in Humans
Life Adventures
I’ll start by being straight up with you. You’re going to get your heart broken more than once as you move though life. Hell, it’ll probably happen as many as 10 times or MORE before you finally find the one person who does nothing but make you happy. I haven’t been on this Earth for very long in the grand scheme of things, and I feel sometimes like I’ve experienced enough heartbreak to last me the rest of my life. One thing that has kept me through it is one word. "Temporary." As in, having your heart broken is only one little part of your life that goes into the bigger picture of the person you are supposed to be. Everything leading up to that point is only temporary.
By Lex Thompson7 years ago in Humans
