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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Intimate Ways Women Want To Be Touched (That Have Nothing To Do With Sex) . Top Story - November 2017.
Sex is a strange thing. As someone who has spent a large chunk of their life doing it for a living, I can safely say that some of the most intimate, sexual and satisfying things for me don’t involve a penis entering me.
By Samantha Bentley8 years ago in Humans
No Matter What He Did, Forgive Him
Let's be honest. Woman to woman. Single mum to single mum. More often than not he did you wrong. He hurt you in ways that you could only imagine a person could be hurt. Maybe you hurt him, too. Maybe you spent a decade or more hurting each other. Maybe he hurt you because he left. Maybe he cheated on you when he promised you were the only one for him. Maybe he was abusive. Maybe he took your identity and ripped it to shreds. This story is for anyone who's been abused, this story is for anyone who sits alone at night filled with resentment.
By Eve Tawfick8 years ago in Humans
Your Niche is Your Tribe
This one I dedicate to anyone who has ever felt out of place in life, especially the younger people who are just finding their way. Life can be hard enough when you have the skill set to deal with pressure to fit in, but when you are young or insecure because you can't identify and others verbally say or show you that they refuse to identify with you, where can you turn?
By Margaret Y. Buapim8 years ago in Humans
Dating Advice is A Fraud, Here's Why
When many of us are young we tend to be drawn towards dating advice online. We usually end up taking magazine quizzes, and of course advice from our closest, most trustworthy friends. Playing games and listening to the "three day rule" only makes dating and love a big game. Of course, you do it to win over the one you are interested in and it makes dating fun. However, taking dating advice from others makes you put on this facade of someone you are not. It only wastes your precious time and effort, or you can take it as experience.
By Dia Mine8 years ago in Humans
Spice up the Ham and Intimacy This Thanksgiving!
Here we are again. When we enjoy the part of the year where we reunite with family and loved ones to enjoy food. We look forward to eating the foods we love, cooked and seasoned with love. Let's keep the creativity alive and spice up our favorite foods with a dash of intimacy in the kitchen. Divorce data proves that intimate relationships have been falling apart for the last 20 years. It is important to sustain pleasure in intimate relationships. Most people are too busy struggling with survival requirements. Yet the quality of our closest relationships is often what gives life its primary meaning. We recognize that infants need to be held and touched. They literally fail to thrive without emotional and physical closeness with another human being. This need for connection never goes away throughout our lives. So... when you think of your ideal romantic intimate setting... what exactly is IT that makes it ideal? Take advantage of this opportunity this Thanksgiving to get even more closer to your partner. Below are a few products and tips to help you.
By Ms Rae8 years ago in Humans
Grieving During the Holidays
When you reflect on your childhood holiday memories, feelings of warmth and love might swell inside you. You might recall the succulent taste of your mom’s turkey or the thrill of ripping the wrapping paper off your gifts from Santa.
By Stephanie Turner8 years ago in Humans
A Letter For You: Abusive Relationships and What I Learned About Myself
Dear Incredible Reader, We always want to see the best in people. There's always a part of us that believes if we give it one more shot we are sure to get a different outcome; but that is an ideal that is so far from the truth of the cycle of abuse it makes me sick.
By Madyson Salmon8 years ago in Humans
Long Distance
Long distance relationships are hard for a lot of reasons. It is never easy being away from the one you love for a long period of time. We as humans desire love, respect, and attention. Here are a few tips and tricks on how to help your long distance relationship be fruitful for both you and your partner.
By Katie Berkenpas8 years ago in Humans
Self Worth
Often times we allow society to define us with a simple label. However, we have the power to allow that label to define who we are, or we can simply brush it off like it never even happened. A simple label like ugly, loser, failure and other harsh words can actually have a negative effect on someone. Why is that?? Often we do not know what our pears are going through. By simply labeling someone ugly, loser, failure, etc... can put a heavy burden on their shoulders.
By Yaneth 138 years ago in Humans
Jealousy in Polyamory
Growing up, I didn’t have a lot of friends. I remember being so possessive of the friends I did have that I would get upset if they hung out with anyone else. I’ve always been that jealous person. I thought it was just a normal character flaw a lot of people had, and that’s true; a lot of people do deal with jealousy and possessiveness, particularly in the polyamorous community. Recently though, I’ve come to realize that I’m not “just a jealous person,” but an insecure human being who can change.
By Abrin B Clearway8 years ago in Humans
To the Girl Who Thinks She Is too Broken
“Maybe I’m not as okay as I want to believe. Maybe those broken pieces I keep denying are attracting the wrong souls.” — Samantha King
By M F8 years ago in Humans
Dating Cleanse
One of my biggest wake ups I had recently is that I noticed dating is no longer exciting to me. It’s become extremely difficult to develop feelings for anyone! I would go on a date, have some good laughs and drinks, say goodbye… or hookup… and then I would lose interest by the next morning. At first, I thought “maybe I just need to stick it out longer, and then my feelings will grow for them,” (like I did with my first long term relationship) but that didn’t work… Instead I grew more annoyed with each guy and didn’t care for them at all.
By Shanna Frasier8 years ago in Humans