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How To Be The Best Sub For A Femdom
Many men express their need and desire to serve the woman or femme of their dreams; do whatever they want and bask in their extreme or nurturing grasp. They'll chirp their favorite buzz word of anything - "I'll do anything you want, Mistress!" but can't even do the bare minimum of sending tributes or even performing a task properly. One time a potential sub bought my application from my ManyVids store and couldn't even fill it out with proper handwriting and detailed answers that were instructed to provide. Most subs in this day and age in the world of female domination are also not even loyal to their Dommes. On the down-low, they will secretly follow Dommes on their social media and get off to their content, tribute them, or even follow any tasks that they are given. It's a rarity to see a sub be loyal and fulfill every need of their Domme. These men smear stains on the title of submissive and are not people you want to flock to. They are people that will just bring you down.
By LUX GATSBY5 years ago in Filthy
Self-Pleasure During Self-Isolation
Quarantine has been rough on us all, and likely hardest for those of us who live alone. It seems counter-intuitive that by physically staying apart from each other, we’re actually supporting one another. These are unprecedented times that call for us to be brave and to exercise our self-love (and probably isn’t the greatest time to download a dating app that puts you in intimate contact with strangers). It’s important to keep in mind that all of our sacrifices during this time will have a powerful impact on our communities. All this being said, keep your head up, because there are plenty of ways to make this quarantine work for you.
By Brandy Clark5 years ago in Filthy
Sex Advice
I'm an 18 year old girl that is well was sexually active. I've had 3 sexual partners and listen they were all different. I lost my virginity at the age of 16 and the guy I lost my virginity to, girls lets just say I could've waited. Although I'm here to give some advice based on my experience.
By Genesis Gonzalez5 years ago in Filthy
Safer Sex Is Better Than No Sex
I. Love. Sex! Engaging in it. Talking about it. Watching it. Writing about it. Born into the sexiest astrological sign of Scorpio, it was all but expected for me to be sex positive! After YEARS of being called everything from a prude (because I wasn't as open-minded about them hiding their love of pornography) to a nymphomaniac (by some who clearly weren't as sexually free as I am), as I approach the end of my fifth decade on this planet, I am fully embracing my nudist free spirit and everything that comes with it! Thankfully, discovering polyamory has shown me how to establish ethical polyandrous relationships allowing me to safely interact with my partners, with or without sex. But who wants to be in a sexless relationship? I am not asexual so I will have what they aren't having!! So... How do I safely maintain multiple loving relationships and remain sexually satisfied? Transparent communication and regular testing to ensure that I have not contracted any sexually transmitted diseases. Why transparent communication? I hate being lied to and I am a bad liar. Why regular testing? I hate condoms but I want my partners to fully trust me.
By Author Lea Mishell5 years ago in Filthy
Voice Acting Advice: Reading NSFW Scripts
In Voice Acting, there will be a lot of jobs over the course of your career. From audiobooks, to advertisements, and video narrations. To family cards and NSFW (Not Safe For Work/Wife) voice overs. It’s that last one that I’ll be going over today. The amount of cheap NSFW requests I get over the course of a year is unbelievable. This year alone I ended up with 13. I’m not usually a NSFW voice over, but I’ve dipped into it. I occasionally do some for a quick chuckle, and the $8 isn’t a bad bonus. Like I said, these people are CHEAP.
By Skyler Ricketts5 years ago in Filthy
In Response: What's kinda like playing with yourself but isn't?
Every day I get questions from people that attended one of my trainings, read my blog, or my books. Once I get the same question again and again for a while, I recognize that it would be worthwhile to share this q and a with others. So this question about restrictions on stimulation of oneself is one that regularly pops up. It is also a question that is asked by everyone and not just one gender. I welcome your thoughts and impressions on how you might answer this yourself. Whether you agree or disagree with my reply you will get to learn what iktsuarpok means.
By Joseph Crown5 years ago in Filthy
The One Thing Men Want More Than Sex
How many times have we heard the phrase, “All men want is sex?” When I was 17 years old I was sure it was true. When I was 37 years old, I suspected it might not be true. And now that I’m 73 years old, I know it’s not true. Now don’t get me wrong, sex can be wonderful at any age, but there’s something that is more important than sex, but it’s something that men have difficulty admitting and women have difficulty giving.
By Lana Ridlon5 years ago in Filthy
Why Do Guys like Sexting? Here are 7 Reasons
Sexting is the act of sending sexually explicit messages and pictures to another person. It is, however, worth noting that this act is viewed differently by both men and women. Most women shy off sexting because they consider it a form of intimacy. Research shows that women in healthy relationships will not likely sext a stranger or past lover but will likely sext their current partners. However, men in healthy relationships will sext a stranger without flinching. That brings us to question why it is so easy for them. This article explores some of the reason guys like sexting.
By Alice Naraa5 years ago in Filthy
